Entrepreneurship can be an emotional roller coaster. However, much like life itself, if you develop the right relationships, it is reassuring and comforting to know that you are not heading out on the journey alone (unless you’re a jerk).
Share your enthusiasm and sell your vision to friends and family. It can be infectious (but not in an H1N1 kind of way).
At first, you may feel like you are the only person who sees the “brilliance” of what you are creating. And that’s ok. Just remember that your enthusiasm is infections. If you wear your heart on your sleeve, others may not fully grasp your vision, but they will sense that something is brewing and will become your biggest supporters and most effective marketers.
Having access to individuals whose opinions you respect is also particularly important early on as you work through issues in your business plan and strategy. Realistically, you are going to spend many hours in your own head working through issues…however, sometimes the only way to make sense of the mess is by informally talking it out with friends or family.
More importantly, there may come a time when you experience self doubt (I didn’t think it would happen…but it does). When it appears the walls are caving in around you, it’s reassuring to have cheerleaders who believe in what you’re doing and provide the right amount of encouragement to see you over the hump (conversely, it’s also good to have people around you who can help keep you grounded if/when delusions creep into your head).
There’s value in lessons learned first hand…but sometimes free lessons are better.
Unless you are a complete narcissist, you will realize quickly that you don’t have all of the answers….quite frankly, there are times when you won’t even know what questions to ask. This can be particularly daunting if you are launching something on your own. However, developing relationships with mentors and advisers is an easy and effective way to tap a knowledge base of practical options and solutions.
Ultimately your journey will be unique and individualized, yet at the core, there are situations all entrepreneurs have encountered (setting up loans and financing, dealing with an unreliable supplier, a challenging customer, a printer that jams at inopportune times). I learned early on that small business owners and operators across different industries deal with similar issues on a regular basis.
Write (don’t type) everything down.
You will find that what you are creating becomes your life…you will eat, sleep and urinate your business. There will be times when ideas in your head are being generated rapidly. If you have a thought that gets your heart and mind racing, write it down….if it is important enough, and you obsess enough, something will come of it. If you have a random thought that you can’t remember a few hours later…it will irritate you like an itch you can’t scratch. It’s also good to keep a log where you can write and sketch out your plans, and to take notes during meetings. I’m on my 4th journal in the past year and can see how my thoughts and entries have evolved. Every so often I do a scan through the journals to see if there is anything I felt was brilliant…and might work at this time.
Net-net… .
Too many chefs will spoil the dish…but having relationships (both personal and professional) with mentors and complementary advisors is crucial when venturing into uncharted territory. I’m not suggesting that if you are starting a dot com (like me), that you should seek out Mark Zuckerberg or Bill Gates for periodic chats or coffee…it’s not going to happen. However, look around at your network for support. Your friends, family, the guy who runs the Starbucks where you now hold most of your meetings are usually happy to provide advice and direction. After all, experiences are best when they are shared.
About David Katz: David Katz is the president & founder of JackTheDonkey.com, a new social network where your time online benefits the charity of your choice (at a rate of 1.1 cents every impression). Thanks to corporate sponsors, JackTheDonkey.com is a free & fun way to support your choice of more than 20 charities from North America & The UK.







